my instant messages to only 1 person in my contact list don't go through, it gives me that pending circle icon, i was IMing the guy for about 3 hours and then all of a sudden none of my messages got through. I tried uninstalling and reinstalling and that didn't work.
feel free to send solution to email@example.com
If you have a solution to this can you post it? I too seem to be having issues with my computer to computer instant messaging. They are not going through and I too get that circle thing.